So, so sorry to hear about Gilbert. It has affected all of us outside of NC so deeply. Gil was a wonderful and genuine guy. I loved being around him and listening to him talk about a new subject, which he always had one. He did look out for you and George. He loved you guys and I know he loved his wife and baby. He loved to learn and could remember everything. Ben, just know that we all loved him and all are in such disbelief and shock, it is hard to articulate. The night I found out, I had many texts, phone calls and messages to tell me. That shows how he was greatly respected and loved by all! Everyone is asking, why Gilbert? He was one who lived in the church, but still did not let it affect his true love and good intentions towards people. He was a real Christian and a real man. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and George and your Mom. I know your Dad is hurting, but of course is in that bubble, but it will burst someday.

Check out gilbertlazaruscarmona.blogspot.com for my story of Gil and feel free to comment or post whatever you would like to about him.