Are the practices of any group to which you belong- portable? If you move to another group of the same type, will these practices be accepted and embraced as beneficial? The answer to this question can determine if your group is helpful or harmful. Let’s apply this to different examples.
Keith Raniere, leader of Nxivm has been convicted in New York of seven felonies involving unique practices of his group. The guilty verdict involved charges of racketeering, sex trafficking, sexual exploitation of a child and human trafficking. He billed his group as ‘self-help and empowerment’ and yet, the closer one became to the leader, the less true ‘help or empowerment’ you received. Some victims were actually physically branded with the leaders initials.
In closing arguments of Rainere’s recent trial (link below), federal prosecutor, Moira Penza said, “The whys of this case are as old as time… sex, money, power.”
Rainere “used tactics that destroyed victims ‘sense of self,’ created financial dependence and isolated them from their friends and family…”
There are several “self-help” groups one can be a part of in this country. Many center on a leader and espouse methods and techniques which they claim are the keys to improvement. Self-discipline, reading, habit cultivation, physical exercise and meditation are just a few of techniques which these groups advocate.
Yet, in the end, the unique practices of Nxivm were not transferable to similar self-help or empowerment groups. The sexual exploitation and trafficking were illegal. The leader used common techniques listed above by Penza, to fashion a cult-like dynamic supported by his top leaders. Raniere did not promote his followers to be free to join other “self-help” groups in seeking additional help. Why? I believe because he never was about truly helping his followers. He was after “sex, money (and) power…” To many of his followers, he had it all. He was “Master.”
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