Recently, a friend replied to an email. He had to get clarification on something I sent him. He asked me if I meant to imply that Word of Faith Fellowship (WOFF) does not celebrate Mother’s Day. I chuckled when reading his question. Though the WOFF website lists one paragraph with one scripture reference and a short list of holidays; they do not specifically mention Mother’s Day, Memorial Day or Fourth of July. (In years past, WOFF has had a Veteran’s appreciation program. Not sure how that works now.) But, none of these are officially celebrated at WOFF. (NO on the fireworks, for sure!!!) Certainly, in this country, we are not required and should not be required to participate in any national, regional or cultural celebration regardless of the origin. Freedom to opt out or in is still a freedom.
However, looking at the whole picture and not just number 17 on the list of “Beliefs” on the WOFF website, one gets a clearer picture of the effects of this non-participation. Mother’s Day is a busy time for the post office, flower shops and telephone/cell services. It is a normal practice in the American culture to take time and show your mother your love and appreciation on that day. Yes, gifts, cards and other things may lead the way for the “evidence” of the love. There is always a group of folks that allow the commercial side of anything to replace the meaning. It is so easy to do in this culture.
From this blog we learn a little more about the origin of Mother’s Day:
http://www.pressdemocrat.com/article/20100508/LIFESTYLE/100509629/1349?p=2&tc=pg
“It was a hardworking mother and teacher, Anna Jarvis, who came up with the idea of Mothers’ Work Days to improve sanitation in her small West Virginia town in 1958, according to the Santa Rosa-based National Women’s History Project. In 1872, Boston poet, pacifist and women’s suffragist Julia Ward Howe established a special day for mothers as a call for peace after so many sons were lost in the bloody Franco-Prussian War. But it was Jarvis’ daughter, also named Anna, who pushed Congress to officially establish Mother’s Day in 1914. Jarvis herself railed against the selling of Mother’s Day.”